So a few nights back we (being my family) somehow got into a conversation about the definition of the word 'homophobia'. Normal dinner topic I'm sure. What brings this up is that the definition appears to be the fear and discrimination of homosexuals. I thought that was rather odd so I looked it up.
According to the nice online dictionary that definition is correct. So logically, claustrophobia must be the fear and discrimination of confining places (how do you manage that one?), and arachnophobia must be the fear and discrimination of spiders (maybe you squash them whenever you see them?). But that's not the case (or maybe it is and I'm that out of touch). Phobia is the fear of x (x being whatever is attached to the front of the word phobia), and in the examples I looked up as well that held true, except for homophobia.
So I'm wondering when the definition changed. The old (1988) dictionary lying around the house mentions nothing about discrimination, just the fear. So the redefining must have happened since then. Why?
For whatever it's worth, I don't care if your gay or not. Is your life, knock yourself out. I'm of the opinion what two consenting adults choose to do in their own time is all them (of course if you changed that to unconsenting, unadult, someone elses time, well that's a different story). I might agree with you (or not), but that's entirely besides the point. The redefining of the word had to have come from somewhere, and if not the gay community then who? (and why?).
What next? Shall we redefine terrorist to be anyone that didn't vote for the current president? (since if your not with us your against us) Persistent vegetative state as anyone that hasn't run a marathon in the past year? (since if you aren't out and about that much then you must be brain dead) Speed limit as an unenforced suggestion? (since everyone drives faster then the posted limit and everyone must be right)
Right, I think that's enough ranting at absurdity, time for something more productive, like going back to sleep...